Being sad and moping is not a way to get him back . There are various techniques to get back which you have lost. Most important thing is understand what importance he has in your life. Find out the reasons of quarrel and conflict in past. If you were on mistake go back to him admit your mistakes and tell him softly that you want to make a new start again and make him sure how he is important in your life. If he admits your apology it will be easy to make a new start again.  If he has some hesitation, tell him that you are still his friend. Try to make a new start again. Don’t repeat those mistakes which were the reasons of your break up. Make a new start with him like good friends and talk about happy time which you spend together in past and discuss with him those memories can be back.

This is a basic rule that should be adhered to when you are considering how to get your ex back. After a break-up, most people and especially ladies often feel the need of expressing their emotional state to their boyfriends and tell them how much they love them and cannot live without them. This would not work in your favor because you might appear desperate and needy. It will also make your ex think that he or she can do absolutely anything to you and you will be unable to leave him or her. You should always stay strong and let things work themselves out because there are only two possible outcomes to this situation i.e. you will both part ways and move on or you will get back together and have a long fruitful life. Obsessing over begging and pleading with your ex will only damage your confidence and self-esteem especially in his eyes.